JOY NESBITT
Am i the a**hole?
Written by Dafe Orugbo

All rise. The Court of Public Opinion is now in session.
Can you ever wear white to a wedding? Does replying ‘k’ constitute emotional abuse? Should fuckboys pay emotional reparations?
And seriously, who gets the dog in the breakup? You’re invited to a courtroom drama like you’ve never seen before. Satirical, comedic and experimental, this show turns the theatre-going experience into a game of cunning and manipulation.
Select your role as a member of the jury or the public audience in this immersive performance where the collective gets to decide: who is the a**hole? Am I The A**hole? is a brand-new piece of immersive event theatre, where audiences have some very important decisions to make. They can choose to be a member of the audience that sees the story unfold in its entirety, or they can opt to be a potential juror, going through a jury selection process and give a verdict on who’s the a**hole.
Team
Writer – Dafe Orugbo
Director – Joy Nesbitt
Producer — Lisa Nally
Set and Costume Design – Mar Parés Baraldés
Lighting Design – Eimear Conroy
Sound Design – Ciaran Gallagher
Cast
Judge – Emily Lagacé
Amy-May – Aoife Morgan Jones
Tumi – Sodiq Ajibola Abiola
Grace – Colleen Keogh
Cormac – Samuel Coyle
Fran – Siomha McQuinn
Awards & Reviews
Nominated for the Theatre Lovett Always Ready Award 2025
“Director Joy Nesbitt brilliantly sustains the facade of a trial while letting giddiness bubble beneath, sometimes breaking through…. The cast are uniformly excellent…. Set designer Mar Parés Baraldés outdid herself”
— Irish Central
“From start to finish, people were positively bursting with laughter.”
“Wildly unpredictable”



















